The Swinging Lifestyle can be a very erotic experince.
A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners.
Swinging isn't simply 'Wife Swapping', nor is it quite as simple as 'Recreational sex between consenting adults' - even though we prefer the latter definition. It's more of a state of mind. It's about being honest, open-minded, and expressing oneself with other people while not endangering pre-existing relationships. Swinging is all about sexually liberating fun whether you're a single person, a couple, a triple, etc... Swinging is not restricted to heterosexual couples only, though most people may think so. Swinging is also not restricted to any particular type of sexual persuasion. It's for anyone who likes the idea of enjoying sex with other people for fun, no matter what kind of sexual activities they have in mind. Swinging can, and often does, lead to long lasting friendships because it is very social and open with no need for any deceit. Anyone who equates swinging to having an affair couldn't be further from the truth.
Soft Swing means no penetration with anyone but your own partner.
Often people wanting a soft swing will be quite specific about their own particular boundaries. Sometimes it's just same-room 'voyeur' fun, while other times it can mean going as far as touching others, or perhaps masturbation and oral with others. As in all swinging situations, you choose your own boundaries that suit you, and it's best to be as open as possible to ensure things don't go further than you are comfortable with.
Hardened Swinger is usually used in the negative (e.g. "We're not hardened Swingers") and is simply a very experienced swinger who is very active in the scene. The reason this term is often used in a negative light is because many people who swing do not necessarily live, eat and breath swinging. Saying, "We're not hardened swingers", is usually just another way of saying, "It's OK, we're normal and balanced, honest!"
If you are currently in a relationship and wondering whether swinging is for you, the following questionnaire may be beneficial:
1.Have you discussed your fantasies with your partner?
2.Have you got a strong and honest relationship?
3.Are you committed to your relationship?
4.Is your sex life with your partner good?
5.Do you feel comfortable at the thought of seeing your partner kissing/touching/having sex with another person?
6.Are you confident talking about sex?
7.Have you watched and enjoyed a porn video together?
8.Do you trust yourself and your partner?
9.Do you feel comfortable saying no?
10.Does the idea of swinging arouse you both?
11.Have you both considered the sexual health implications?
12.Are you both happy to stop without hesitation if the other wants to?
If you answered 'Yes' to each of the questions above then perhaps it's time to get involved with swinging. Taken from Swinging Heaven.
Swinging is primarily a social activity. The ordinary social customs of being courteous, initiating conversation, getting to know people, and letting trusted acquaintances become friends are no different from any other walk of life. Put another way, it's your ability to form friendships with couples, as a couple, that will ultimately determine the quality of your experience in the swing community. Taken from sexuality.org/swinging
AC/DC - Bi-Sexual Person(s)
Arts - Fetishes
B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline
Back Door - Anal Sex
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.
BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism
BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.
Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.
Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.
Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.
Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel, generally beyond an hours drive.
CD - Cross Dresser - Person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally used by men.
Clean - Diseases and Drug Free
Cougar - An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.
Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.
CPL - Couple
Cuckold - The husband of a wife/girlfriend. Often (but not always) seeking to please his partner's needs in a weak, effeminate, inadequate or subservient way allowing others to take complete control over his partner and/or both of them.
Cuckqueen - A cuckquean is a wife or girlfriend of a husband/boyfriend. A cuckquean is the gender-opposite of a cuckold.
Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris
DD - Clean, disease and drug free.
Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.
DP - Double Penetration, simultanious Vaginal and Anal.
DVP - Double Vaginal Penetration - Two penises in one vagina.
Entertain - Can Entertain
Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.
F - Female
Fellation - Oral stimulation of the penis
Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.
FFM - Female Female Male
Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.
FWB - Friends With Benefits: Friends who have casual sex without any kind of commitment.
Gay - Homosexual, generally a male, but not always.
GBM - Gay Black Man
GWM - Gay White Male
Hall Pass - An agreement between a couple where one or both of them may have sex with other people.
Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.
Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.
Hotwife - A happily married woman that enjoys having sex outside the marriage with the full support of her husband. The husband is generally monogamous with his wife and may or may not watch her with other men.
Hung - One with a large penis
HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.
ISO - In Search Of
Lesbian - Gay women.
LTR - Long Term Relationship
M - Male
MBC - Married Black Couple
MBiC - Married Bi Couple
MFM - Male Female Male
MILF - Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck
Moresome - More than four.
MWC - Married White Couple
NSA - No Strings Attached
Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.
P/P - Photo/Phone
Poly (Polyamory) - Having more than one open romantic relationship at a time.
S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism
Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.
SBF - Single Black Female
SBiF - Single Bi Female
SBiM - Single Bi Male
SBM - Single Black Male
SGL - Single
Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.
Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.
STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.
STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.
Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners
SWF - Single White Female
SWM - Single White Male
Unicorn - Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.
Versatile - Bisexual
Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.
Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation.
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